Second Interview

She was the friend who thought I would end up as a politician. We were born on the same day and month (30th December) but one year apart. According to her, deliberate circumstances had led to our official birth day and month to be different (30th December and 1st January) but of the same year. Our life crossed as a result of this circumstances as in the year we officially turned sixteen we ended up being in the same batch of girls leaving the comfort of our different schools in the capital city of the country to the unfamiliarity of culture of the same school (and the LOCALS) in the eastern part of the peninsula.

She was and has always been dear to my heart as when she had the option to choose between me or another friend who was trying to win her close-friendship she chose me despite my social shortcomings. When telling me her reason for keeping a distance with 'this friend', she might have not realised 'this friend' was trying to sideline me (she made me her choice most probably accidently!!!). Her keeping a distance with 'this friend' had nothing to do with me but much to do with her sense of loyalty and sincerity in friendship, which made her very special to me.

She is still the same sweet, simple and to-the-point girl I knew back then, proven by the way she answers the first part of the interview (though I would appreciate some clearer answers!!!). I truly hope my introduction of her would not discourage her to participate in the second part of the interview (she is a very private person in so many ways!!!). Here is her first part of the interview;

Part 1

1. Question: Let us know a bit of your background…



• name (you can be anonymous)

Answer: do not disclose


• city of origin

Answer: kelantan


• marital status

Answer: married


• age

Answer: 40+


• occupation

Answer: banker


• parents occupations

Answer: academicians


• the number of siblings you have

Answer: 7


• age of your siblings

Answer: 20+ to 40+

and also, if you are married


• age of your spouse

Answer: 40+


• occupation of your spouse

Answer: banker


• the number of children you have

Answer: 3


• ages of your children

Answer: 7 to 16


2. Question: Which school, primary and secondary, did you go to?

Answer: Primary-day school, Secondary-boarding school


3. Question: How do you describe, being a student, in these schools, in terms of orientation – academic, social, religious and moral

Answer: normal standard


4. Question: How do you describe your achievement - social, academic, religious and moral, which you believe you had gained for being;




1. in school more than being at home, and

Answer: above normal


2. at home more than being in school

Answer: normal standard


5. Question: How do you describe the role of your parents on your upbringing

Answer: build and guide


6. Question: What are the things about school, from your school years to now, that you think



1. have improved

Answer: standard of achievement


2. have not improved, and

Answer: community relationship


3. have gotten worse?

Answer: moral and communication skill


7. Question: How do you describe yourself;



1. before you initially met your husband
2. when you were courting (if you were)
3. when you were engaged (if you were)
4. in the first five years of marriage, and
5. from then(d)to now?

Answer: from a to e – n/a


8. Question: What are the things you wish you had known and you think would have made your life easier knowing ahead than to discover them later?

Answer: Life expectancy


9. Question:How much have your siblings helped you in making important decisions in your life? Please elaborate.

Answer: No


10. Question: How much have your friends helped you in making important decisions in your life? Please elaborate

Answer: No

Mr. B, Mr. A and Me

recent email exchange
____________________

Salam Mr.B,

My boss email add.:

mrA@companyG.com

Regards
____________________

Thuraya, if you do not mind can I’ve your mobile no. Apparently I don’t have it.

Regards

MR. B, COMPANY P
____________________

Salam Mr.B,

XXX-XXX XXXX

regards

____________________

Thanks.

Any feedback on our response about K issue? Forgot to inform Mr. N that all those changes has been discussed at working level between company P and company G regional office. You may add those info to him if necessary.

Regards

MR B, COMPANY P

____________________

Salam Mr. B,

Not-surprisingly, not-to-get a credit note at all is a disappointment to all. Anyhow, the management will be informed of company P’s decision next week (most probably Monday). We (the task force committee and regional office) are waiting for our management directive on how to move from company P's decision. Will let you know once the management has decided.

BTW, my boss’s name is Mr. A, not Mr. N.

Regards.

____________________

'the sister of your mother is your mother'

by the title of this post i am a mother to five sons and seven daughters...

by the words of the prophet (pbuh) I am ...

قارئة الفنجان

عبد الحليم حافظ - قارئة الفنجان

جَلَسَت والخوفُ بعينيها
تتأمَّلُ فنجاني المقلوب

قالت:
يا ولدي.. لا تَحزَن
فالحُبُّ عَليكَ هوَ المكتوب
يا ولدي،
قد ماتَ شهيداً
من ماتَ على دينِ المحبوب
فنجانك دنيا مرعبةٌ
وحياتُكَ أسفارٌ وحروب..
ستُحِبُّ كثيراً يا ولدي..
وتموتُ كثيراً يا ولدي
وستعشقُ كُلَّ نساءِ الأرض..
وتَرجِعُ كالملكِ المغلوب

بحياتك يا ولدي امرأةٌ
عيناها، سبحانَ المعبود
فمُها مرسومٌ كالعنقود
ضحكتُها موسيقى و ورود
لكنَّ سماءكَ ممطرةٌ..
وطريقكَ مسدودٌ.. مسدود
فحبيبةُ قلبكَ.. يا ولدي
نائمةٌ في قصرٍ مرصود
والقصرُ كبيرٌ يا ولدي
وكلابٌ تحرسُهُ.. وجنود
وأميرةُ قلبكَ نائمةٌ..
من يدخُلُ حُجرتها مفقود..
من يطلبُ يَدَها..
من يَدنو من سورِ حديقتها.. مفقود
من حاولَ فكَّ ضفائرها..
يا ولدي..
مفقودٌ.. مفقود

بصَّرتُ.. ونجَّمت كثيرا
لكنّي.. لم أقرأ أبداً
فنجاناً يشبهُ فنجانك
لم أعرف أبداً يا ولدي..
أحزاناً تشبهُ أحزانك
مقدُورُكَ.. أن تمشي أبداً
في الحُبِّ .. على حدِّ الخنجر
وتَظلَّ وحيداً كالأصداف
وتظلَّ حزيناً كالصفصاف
مقدوركَ أن تمضي أبداً..
في بحرِ الحُبِّ بغيرِ قُلوع
وتُحبُّ ملايينَ المَرَّاتِ...
وترجعُ كالملكِ المخلوع

• ...no, i don't understand all...
• ...yes, it's a tragic love song...
• ...singer is the late abdul halim hafez of egypt...